Author: ektz

[ The conversation begins out of no where, and lands up where A_C ends up saying that male domination of the society is a good thing!!!]

A_C: that’s, in one-way good too….

Me: why do you think that?

A_C: for social balance Ekta… generally a high-earning gal will marry high-earning male… that way richer will become richer….

Me : its just merely a term. It’s not likely these days

A_C : nope….successful female will marry only successful male… its rule that husband should earn more or at least not very less than wife…. there’s always some imbalance in family if wife earns higher or is more successful…

Me : 🙂 u are a typical indian male

A_C : i am just stating the social situation… i would love to see woman doing good…. but it isnt very good for society….

Me : its people like you, who are stubbornly thinking the same thing, that’s why there is no change in situation

A_C : ha ha…..

Me : the rule of evolution is that, one who is fittest would survive, whether male or female 🙂

A_C : let us consider we have a company with 4 people….

Me : 🙂 okay

A_C : company means firm….firm has 2 women and 2 men…. the two employed women will chose only the 2 employed for marriage…. this leaves 2 unemployed ppl who will marry…. ?! So basically its situation of rich getting richer… and poor getting poorer…

Me : now now.. why are you assuming in part of females
Me : let them do what they want to. 😀 I mean if I am the richer one, I might marry a poor guy who would take care of my house. to reverse the situation. And there are females out there who would think like me

A_C : yes…thats a good solution… but not possible biologically…

Me : why not

A_C : men have testosterone which doesn’t permit passive work….

Me : why do you define home making a passive work. its the most active work . men at jobs would work for only 12 hours max. The home making is a 24- 7
Me : 🙂 you got my point?

A_C : ok….yaar… agreed….
A_C : males are yet to get broad-minded….

Me : 🙂 glad to have proven my point:)
Me : yes they are

A_C : ha ha…ok… so whats the conclusion??

Me : no conclusions. Situation remains the same still 🙂

You know what is my latest topic of thinking…

… Eh! How would you know before my officially declaring it:P

Anyways. its the fascination with personalities of a person. Not a particular one, but almost everyone that i come in contact with. I mean, i know at work everyone is professional. And not them selves, that’s why when i look at someone, i try to read, what he would be otherwise. like, the most fierce tempered trainer might be a shy and sweet person in his normal life, and vice versa.

Who knows, right?

Anyways, the question is, are you different than what you show at your workplace? if yes, then how do you cope with the differences?

1. Your name spelled backwards :atke

2. Where were your parents born? India

3. What is the last thing you downloaded onto your computer?Damn Aol messanger!! which keeps bugging my anti-virus again and again!

4. What’s your favorite restaurant? Smokin Joes Pizza joint! mmmm. great memories.

5. Last time you swam in a pool? i dnt Swim. hydrophoebia

6. Have you ever been in a school play? Yes- Was Father of RAM in the Great EPIC Reproduction of RAMAYANA.

7. How many kids do you want? i want three.

8. Type of music you dislike most? honestly i like all types of music!

9. Are you registered to vote? Yep.

10. Do you have cable? Yes Again,

11. Have you ever ridden on a moped? nope. A bike – yes, my favorite

12. Ever prank call anybody? Yep, that is something i love doing all the time.

13. Ever get a parking ticket? Nope. But a speeding ticket – YES.

14. Would you go bungee jumping or sky diving? Both. for sure.

15. Farthest place you ever traveled? Hmm. Astral travel to Iceland

16. Do you have a garden? yep a terrace one.

17. What’s your favorite comic strip? Garfield, wizard of ID

18. Do you really know all the words to your national anthem? yes.

19. Bath or Shower, morning or night? bath, night ! lots of candles and a book and three hours of spare time.

20. Best movie you’ve seen in the past month? Karam!

21. Favorite pizza topping? cheese, mushrooms, mushrooms and more mushrooms

22. Chips or popcorn? Popcorn, cheese

23. What color lipstick do you usually wear? I don’t wear usual, but if i do, it would be chocolate/brown.

24. Have you ever smoked peanut shells? nope! what are they anyways?? hehe!!

25. Have you ever been in a beauty pageant? Naah. i am against them

26. Orange Juice or apple? Apple

27. Who was the last person you went out to dinner with and where did you dine? Cousin, Out at a Club.

28. Favorite type chocolate bar? Mars or Toblerone

29. When was the last time you voted at the polls? Everyyear

30. Last time you ate a homegrown tomato? When i was four, i even have a pic of it 😛

31. Have you ever won a trophy? yep, loads of them. mostly for ‘talking’ 😛

32. Are you a good cook? yes. damn good. i can cook instant outta any given thing!

33. Do you know how to pump your own gas? Yup.(no pun) 😛

34. Ever order an article from an infomercial? Nope. Dont believe them

35. Sprite or 7-up? Mountain Dew 🙂 Do the DEW!

36. Have you ever had to wear a uniform to work? Naah. never. Never had a uniform kinda jobs

37. Last thing you bought at a pharmacy? Aspirin for headaches

38. Ever throw up in public? erm yeah! motion sickness after a bumpy ride!

39. Would you prefer being a millionaire or find true love? hmmm. hard choice , but i will have both, cause there is no word call impossible in my dictionary.

40. Do you believe in love at first sight? Of course not. its a love at first BITE 🙂

41. Ever call a 1-900 number? lol. never!

42. Can ex’s be friends? None Ex can be friend afterwards in my case except one who was my schooltime friend and so we still are. though i have seen two of my EX becoming good friends, over and over again. Thats a terrible sight!

43. Who was the last person you visited in a hospital? MY self 😛

44. Did you have a lot of hair when you were a baby? Yep.

45. What message is on your answering machine? “If i am not picking up, i am either terribly busy … Or.. Sleeping. Leave ur number, will call back once i am done sleeping 😛

46. What’s your all time favorite Saturday Night Live Character? never watched it

47. What was the name of your first pet? Sweetu: my Parrot [:( Died few months back]

48. What is in your purse? keys, phone. money, comb, chain, lock, condom, leather belt, am all ready to attack u see!

49. Favorite thing to do before bedtime? Talk, talk talk.

50. What is one thing you are grateful for today? The special someone of my life… [no names tho 😀

🙂 * blah blah blah blah..*

i can talk about thousand things which are good.. and a million which are funny…

i mean, thats one of the things about the campain batch of ours which was used to known as “phoenix” is now known as “monsters”… there is not a single hour spent since the start of this special training that we have not laughed our asses off!!

… and to top it all… we are going back to the unsofistication instead.. the word flying in our session are like… “Chindi chaur”… “lukkha”… “joka-poka”…. [ dont even as me what the third word is used in context of!! 😀

thats all to it right now…
just enjoying my days here…
but i know once this training gets over, its again hectic hell back to us..

so… three cheers to “monsters”!!!!

unsofisticatedly yours,
Ektz.

Lets get on the light side of the life….. 😀

1. She’s crazy enough not to be crazy about silly material expressions of affection. [ well, it gets hard to woe this kind of girl, isn’t it? ]

2. She can be the person with whom you can talk about your normal routines instead of romancing all the time. [ hell! I mean, who wants that??!! Someone who can listen and then be critical of your activities and *the way* you do them. ]

3. She doesnt care what you’re dressed in, or where you’re going together. [ To her , dressing up and going to a ballroom dance OR going to a beach to have a round of booze in ‘whatever’ clothes is same! ]

4. She has very short attention span to most of the things in life. [ unfortunately that means no long duration fights are available… but on the positive side… one will have to be constantly active to keep her interested!!! ]

5. She is the perfect counterpart for the male chauvinistic pricks [MCPs]. [ um… keep guessing how?…. :D]

0300 hours.

Shadows conjuring in my room… but no breathing soul except I.
Intoxicating compositions through the earphones… at its loudest ever.
Me sitting in a corner… with my arms around my pulled up knees.
Eyes closed shut… feeling every sensation that those songs bring.
Painstakingly embracing the anguish… the ache… the retribution…
The vigor… the weakness… all at once.

… Its so remarkable how we can undergo so much through music. Or may be its just me. May be its just about the passion, obsession that music brings out in me. Like last night it did…

I started with
“Woh lamhe.. woh yaadein..” From the movie Zeher…
… Exasperating melancholy.
“Raunde hain.. mujko tera pyaar” From movie Pyaar tune kya kiya…
… Excruciating resentment.
“Frozen” by Madonna…
… Pain at its purest.
“Tera hi karam” from the movie Karam…
… More soreness…
“In the End ” by Linkin park..
…
… Obliteration… Destruction.
…
… In the end… it doesnt even matter……

well, These days i’m too busy with training and commuting myself 60 kms everyday that i’m not getting enough time to write a post and then post it too!!!

well, the other reason could be that, i’ve [once more] blasted my computer motherboard.. and i mean it literary!! The capacitters were ommitting smoke once i was done with the whole ‘trouble shooting’. Anyways i’ll be getting a new motherboard in a day or two, and shall be more active.

but till the time, i’ll be boring the readers of my blog.. with my one liners…[thank you for sticking with it till this long.. i appreciate the patience!!]

oneliner of the day: that was told by my trainer, a very superb lady.

In life, when a person does some good to you, you say THANKS. but when a person does some bad to you, you say THANK YOU VERY MUCH. cause those are the one who changes you for good.

… lets just ponder over the thought… and have a nice evening ahead…