“Dominant girls, are good in bed, but not in real life.”

He said it, out of the blue. [later on he said, it was because he was sleepy that he said it, but he did not really mean it.]

The conversation was going good, The flirting was in the air, and What made him make that statement is not really known to me. He was merely just giving voice to his thoughts, or may be he was just stating his belief which he actually wanted to prove wrong otherwise. A Reverse psychology of denial.

But it stuck to me, in very weird sort of way. That lead me to think if it was really the case. That men, being the most competitive one of the human species, would really not be able to accept the dominance of a female in the field that they are supposed to be the master in.

I mean, its not that men wouldnt appreciate women being the master in kitchen. They would galdly accept the home-maker as the queen of that things, as he doesnt believe himself to be able enough to handle that. Think about it, how many gals living alone is known to have servents to do the house-hold work, and compare that to number of guys living alone that has servents to almost do all the household. [Of course there are exceptions there too. but we aren’t talking about that right now.]

But when a female puts a foot in his area of excellence, and starts to prove herself, thats where men starts having troubles. The acceptance issues. Like when female takes the first step in dating.

I do not blame this guy, who said that to me. Its his mindset and his opnions that I accept as a right of freedom of speech and belief.

But then i’ve my freedom of speech too, and so i’m just gonna be just the half-lunatic-half-bithcy person that I am!

Laterz. and btw, happy holi to all of you.

9 thoughts on “Wonder-land!

  1. Phalgun

    Interesting thought to think about..

    I guess as long as things progress without loss of self esteem, it doesnt really matter who’s in charge..

    Just a thought…

  2. I am really confused abt the point u r trying to make. Are u implying that men do not like girls being in good or do u mean men do not like gals being successfull in life?
    If u believe in the first one i would say that u r wrong. I know a lot of men who would like the girl to be dominant in bed.
    Regarding the second point just understand a man’s plight.
    Girl is good in bed.
    Girl is good in cooking.
    Girl gets the attention, children.
    C’mon what is a man supposed to good.

  3. cactus

    Think about it, how many gals living alone is known to have servents to do the house-hold work,
    The only reason could be they are stingy misers..or they r afraid to have a servant for dff reasons..also, they are a suspicious lot and have to spent lots time giving orders..gal u’r views are too much skewed..anyways happy holi…hey if possible please change the color…it’s so dark and all…

  4. Ullas

    Happy Holi to you too…this topic gives me a feeling of deja vu…haven’t we heard and talked enough about it anyway? But guess a few things take time changing, the male mindset included…

  5. hmm. Tats an honest opinion on his part and unfortunately, i think ur statements r true. And oddly enough, i think the same too. I am not saying tat women should stick to kitchen. But there has to be only one who makes the decisions. It can alternate, but 2 dominant personalities wont allow for such a thing.

Leave a Reply

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.